Moving on into a new phase of life means you can feel alive and be open to life’s new opportunities. To really open that door fully to a new life it helps to clear out and release the old. When it comes to relationships there is a time to clear out the debris for a fresh start. This meditation helps to deal with the internal issues.
Read this through first, then try it.
Meditation
Make yourself comfortable. Close your eyes.
Take a few deep and gentle breaths.
Now imagine standing in a garden looking at a house, which represents your relationships with people.
There is one room for each relationship. You are going to focus on the room that corresponds to the relationship you want to release and have closure on.
As you stand in the garden, notice the sky and the weather, which can reflect the energy of the relationship you are to deal with.
Imagine walking inside the house, take a look around. Imagine you walk to the door of the room which represents the relationship you wish to release.
Take a moment to look at the door. Open the door and take a look inside.
Does the room feel fresh or musty, or is there another smell? Are there curtains, and are they drawn or closed? Is the room tidy or a wreck?
The room holds in it items that represent the good and bad of the relationship; the ruined expectations, the promises kept and the promises broken, the good acts and the unkind acts, the loving words and the hateful words. Objects represent the happiness, the sadness, the times of loyalty, the moments of betrayal, the broken dreams, the hurts, loss and grief, the angers, the lies, the misunderstandings. The room represents the things you wonder why they happened, the remnants of love, the good memories, the bad memories. Look at the items in the room and feel what they represent.
They are all going to go. You are going to clear the room entirely, take the items into the garden and create a huge fire to burn and release them.
See your self taking items out, and placing them to make a pile for a fire.
Take out the hurts, the pain, the lies, the angers, the betrayals, the lack of love and the hate.
Go back to the room and take out more items.
Take down the curtains, bring them out to burn.
Go back in and brush the floor, and take the sweepings and place them on the fire.
Clean out everything, and place it on the fire, ready to burn.
Go to the now empty and clean room. Close the door, and lock it. This is not an ordinary house, but one that represents your thoughts, feelings and memories about relationships. This mean that the room can begin to shrink, and even disappear if need be.
Imagine walking back out to the garden, and walk towards the pile to burn. standing before the pile, in your hand is a lighter or match, which lights up. Place the match or lighter with its flame to the pile of items and set them on fire. The flames grow and spread around the items. Watch them burn as the flames burn them all, thoroughly and quickly, and the old energy goes up in smoke.
The flames leave only ash, which can over time be absorbed by the ground and reused by the garden. The old is gone.
Walk out of the garden, close the gate. Walk away from the house and garden.
Now let the image fade.
Notice your fingers and toes, take a few deep and gentle breaths.
When you are ready, open your eyes.
Should you feel you need to repeat this meditation, then you can.
There will be a room in the house which represents your relationship with yourself. You could go and place fresh flowers in that room and if you feel like it, redecorate and refurbish the room. You can be as imaginative as you like. Your subconscious mind can respond to that. (You can also improve other rooms representing other relationships as you wish.)
